Swinger Clubs
Lifestyle clubs and bars for couples and singles. Some host play on site and some are social only, so check each club's own rules, dress code and membership steps before you go. Many keep their address private until you sign up with them.
Swinger Clubs by state
Before you go
- Read the club's own rules first. Dress codes, age limits and who can enter change from club to club.
- Many clubs ask you to sign up before your first visit. Bring a valid photo ID.
- Ask if the club has a tour or a night for newcomers.
- Agree on your limits with your partner before you arrive. No always means no.
Read next
- Golden Rules For Your First Party
- The Boundaries Talk Before You Play
- A Singles Guide To Meeting Couples
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Members-only lifestyle and swing club in Los Angeles for couples and single women. Posts a calendar of upcoming events.
Members-only lifestyle club for ages 21 and up, holding late-night parties in North Beach and also listing travel events.
Private adults-only lifestyle club for members, with events held at a lodge in Littleton near Denver, including a Halloween ball.
On-premise swingers club with a weekly Saturday night and themed parties. Saturdays are for couples and single women.
On-premise alternative-lifestyle club open several evenings a week. Welcomes couples, singles, swingers and other lifestyle groups, with a posted events calendar.
Large on-premise lifestyle and swingers club for guests 21 and older, with themed Friday and Saturday parties on a published event calendar.
Membership-based on-premise lifestyle club with a dress code, serving the Fort Lauderdale area. Welcomes couples and single women; single men on some nights.
On-premise lifestyle club with a bar and dance floor for ages 21 and up. Welcomes couples and single women; single men are admitted by invitation.
Membership-based on-premise lifestyle club with a dress code. Welcomes couples and single women; single men are admitted on some nights.
Private vetted-member on-premise lifestyle social club in Boise's Treasure Valley, hosting themed nights for swingers and kink-minded adults.
Private members' lifestyle club in Aurora, Illinois, with on-premise events at its barn venue. Couples and single women attend; single men need an invitation.
Members-only lifestyle club with a BYOB bar and dance floor plus private rooms. Events are held on site for adults 21 and over.
Private, members-only, on-premise social club for adults in the open lifestyle, in downtown New Orleans.
Adult on-premise lifestyle club west of Baltimore, BYOB. New member applications are open to couples and single women; hosts themed event nights.
Private BYOB lifestyle club for couples and singles in the Washington, DC area. Guests must be 21 or older and are screened at the door.
Lifestyle bar in Dearborn, Michigan, for ages 21 and up. Hosts meet-and-greet nights for couples and singles and couples parties on a weekly schedule.
Swinger and couples lifestyle event organizer in St. Louis. Parties rotate between local venues and hotel takeovers; attendees need an approved account.
Private on-premise adult club in Gastonia, North Carolina, near Charlotte. Members only, 21 and older, BYOB, with a themed party calendar.
On-premise adult lifestyle party venue in Raleigh, North Carolina. Entry is by reservation request; welcomes new and experienced couples and singles.
Private members' social group serving the Albuquerque area, with dated party nights through December. Geared to couples and single women; guests must be 21 or older.
On-premise swinger lifestyle club in Las Vegas, running since 1982. Welcomes couples and singles aged 25 and over, with a dance floor, live entertainment and BYOB service.
Members-only, on-premise swingers club in Midtown Manhattan for couples, single women and screened single men. Address given after RSVP.
Members-only lifestyle club in Columbus for adults 21 and over, with a bar, dance floor and lounge on site. Membership is open to couples, single women and single men.
Lifestyle party group that books weekend hotel takeovers in Sandusky. Welcomes couples, single women and a limited number of approved single men.
Members-only social club for adults 21 and over, aimed at couples in open relationships and singles. One of three Club Eden locations.
Private-membership swinger and dance club holding biweekly Saturday parties. New guests complete an RSVP form and attend a welcome meeting first.
Members-only on-premise lifestyle nightclub in Portland with bars, a dance floor and play spaces. Hosts themed events and says all guests are welcome.
Event space in Portland for the lifestyle. Welcomes swing, poly, kink and LGBTQ+ communities, with a calendar of themed events.
On-site adult social club in Portland, open since 1997, with a large play space. Describes its community as open-minded and welcoming to all, and holds regular parties and open houses.
Private couples lifestyle club in Newport, Pennsylvania, for adults 21 and older. Saturday-night club with dinner, dancing, a BYOB bar and themed parties.
Members-only club in Spring Grove for adult couples and singles in the lifestyle, with on-premise themed parties.
Members-only on-premise adult lifestyle club in the Olneyville area with weekend themed nights, BYOB bar service and a posted event calendar.
Members-only lifestyle lounge near Columbia for couples and single women, open on select Saturday nights. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID.
On-premise adult social club in Knoxville for couples, with themed party nights listed for October and some singles events. BYOB venue with overnight stays by reservation.
Private, members-only, on-premise social club for adults in the open lifestyle.
Private, members-only, on-premise social club for adults in the open lifestyle. Membership is by application.
Members-only club for adults 21 and over: couples in open relationships and singles. On-premise, with a dance floor, play rooms and BYOB.
Members-only, on-premise lifestyle club with a licensed bar. Guests must be 21 or older.
Members-only social club for adults 21 and over, aimed at couples in open relationships and singles. One of three Club Eden locations.
Private, members-only, on-premise social club for adults in the open lifestyle.
Private, invitation-only on-premise social club for adults 21 and over, west of Richmond. Membership is offered to select couples and single women.
Private on-premise lifestyle club serving the Seattle area for members 21 and older, with party nights most of the week and travel events.